上个月黄和文娟姐结婚，我很荣幸地代表全体新加坡优秀留学生和杰出青年以及全体四川地震的灾民深切地祝贺他们在这茫茫人海之中时间的无涯的旷野里成功地走到了一起并且海枯石烂不死不休，让大家很是感动。

婚礼之前我问文娟姐要不要收红包，她说当然要，我说我们这么熟这种世俗的事情就不用了吧，她说谁跟你熟啊，我说我的确参加过几次婚礼但每次都是白吃白喝对送红包这种事完全没有经验，她说送一次就有经验了，我觉得她说的很有道理于是仔细想了想最后决定还是不送了。。。

最近很忙，每次工作超过12个小时，因为喜欢，剩下的时间都在玩，去了一些地方，认识了一些人 —— 人生是有限的，我们所能做的只不过是，在有生之年让自己过得快乐一点。

其实流氓也是种气质，孤独是种生活的态度，只要我们满意我们所选择的生活方式并且遵守其中的规则，那都是值得尊敬的。

5am, just got home, fucking exhausted since stay in office more than 14 hours everyday recently to trade Eurodollar and Euribor books, and didn't make any money...

My body's almost been worn out, but I'm still feeling fine because Trading is the very thing I like so much - you never know what's going to happen in next minute and every day is brand new with mystery!

Also I'm always happy to do whatever I really like to do with all my force without considering too much cost.

我只是不想让生命太平凡

在灯火辉煌的城市以一种寂寞的方式生存，幸运而美好，虽然有迷茫和痛苦，但也有自由和骄傲。

最近每晚总有很多千奇百怪的梦，真实而深刻。梦中总是忘了自己是谁身在何处。梦里所有的情节，发生，消失，然后迅速地被忘记，每天都是新的一天，每天都有新的旅程，如果真实的生活也能像这样，那该有多好。

另外7月2号黄辉和文娟姐结婚，不仅美女参加而且还管饭，真让人期待！

Life is incomplete without Diablo!

Diablo 3 is coming!!!

公元2008年6月

公元2008年6月，似乎有很多事情值得期待:

1. 一年一个月的荔枝，源源不断，一天两斤真他妈的美好。
2. 16号萧敬腾的专辑。
3. Nvidia月中发布新一代显卡GTX280。打算重新配台电脑卖来玩游戏。
4. 月底的越南旅行。
5. Age of Conan! Metal Gear Solid 4!

人们总是活在期待当中，有期待所以有痛苦，可是美好的往往只是期待和忍受痛苦的过程，得到过后发现不过如此，走不出的迷茫与彷徨，就像我，在虚度年华中一天一天地衰老。

突然想起“东邪西毒”里面的一句话：每个人都要经过这个阶段，看见一座山，就想知道山的后面是什么，我想告诉他，可能翻过山后面，你会发觉没什么特别，回头看，会觉得这边更好，但是他不会相信，以他的性格，自己不试试，是不会甘心的！

有很多事错了就错了，过了就过了，无法弥补也无法挽回，只剩下遗憾，然后，慢慢被时间忘记。

It's always good to talk to great people to get different opinions and advices since individual human-been is always ignorant and blind.
Actually I got deep confusion in last a few months. I didn't realize that I was already in a golden spot for which I should treasure and fully utilize... Anyhow I have to make it right as soon as possible.

Went back Chengdu for 10 days holiday on May 1th, played around the city with my friends every day and night, fucking funny and enjoyable.
Regretfully, I left Chengdu one day before the earthquake, which is a catastrophe I really keen to experience. It's dangerous and woeful creating tremendous damage and pain, but it's also supposed to be an interesting adventure of life.

生尽欢 死无憾

可惜我不在成都，不然一定很有趣，因为他妈的地震了。

看太多的电影，读太多的小说，让我平静外表下有颗动荡不安的心，期望冒险，期望奇遇，期望不平常的事情发生，哪怕充满危险。

关于灾难，很多年前读张爱玲的<倾城之恋>，发现两个相爱的人在死亡面前紧紧相拥也是件很幸福的事情。但我注定独自流浪。

最近一直在玩仙剑4，很有感觉：

人生苦短，转瞬即逝，与其担心世事无常和害怕以后的事情，不如珍惜眼前的时光眼前的人，活着的时候要尽欢，死的时候才没有遗憾！

最后为地震中死去以及没有死去的人默哀，生老病死生死别离，生命太脆弱，现实太残酷。

昨天夜半趴在床上看了一遍张朝阳在鲁豫有约的视频，今天夜半趴在床上又看一遍。

突然发现我们所看到的伟人，他们现在拥有的波澜壮阔海阔天空不过是经过长期痛苦挣扎奋斗的结果，而人们往往都只羡慕和追求这个结果，却忽略了其中常人不能忍受的漫长而艰辛的过程。

我一直认为自己现在的自由是建立在过去的莫大的痛苦之上，但比起那些真正值得崇拜的人，差远了。

又看了一遍王家卫的《东邪西毒》，还是那么感动，尽管现在几乎已经没有什么事情能让我感动了。。。

• 任何人都可以变得狠毒，只要你尝试过什么叫做忌妒。
• 如果有一天我忍不住问起，你一定要骗我，就算你的心有多么不愿意，也不要告诉我，你最喜欢的人不是我。
• 每个人都要经过这个阶段，看见一座山，就想知道山的后面是什么。我想告诉他，可能翻过山后面，你会发觉没什么特别，回头看，会觉得这边更好。
• 虽然我很喜欢她，但是我不想让她知道，因为我明白得不到的东西永远是最好的 。
• 为什么要到失去的时候才争取？既然是这样，我不会让他得到。
• 我一直以为是我自己赢了，直到有一天看着镜子，才知道自己输了，在我最美好的时候，我最喜欢的人都不在我身边。
• 我知道，要想不被人拒绝，最好的方法是先拒绝别人。
• 当你不能够再拥有，你唯一可以做的，就是令自己不要忘记。

生命中有太多的事情不受控制，我们唯一能做的只有控制自己，然后变得麻木和偏执，或许也会坚强，坚强到微笑着去享受命运所给的一切快乐和悲伤。

I can not fall asleep tonight again since there has some fascinating ideas and images haunting in my mind, again.

All the past madness, which made me excited, fell away my expectation 9.5 out of 10 times, but I still feel very much like to explore the opportunities to turn the new ones into reality.

After many years' misery, one principle most important I stand to: Act immediately after thinking carefully, not to regret for anything in future!

Otherwise, I moved out of Costa Rhu condo last week as the rental became too high for me to pay, however I have to say it's a fucking nice place to stay. This was the view of my window:

。。。无语

钗头凤--陆游

红酥手，黄藤酒，满城春色宫墙柳。东风恶，欢情薄，一杯愁绪，几年离索。错！错！错！

春如旧，人空瘦，泪痕红悒鲛绡透。桃花落，闲池阁，山盟虽在，锦书难托。莫，莫，莫！

钗头凤--唐婉

世情薄，人情恶，雨送黄昏花易落。晓风干，泪痕残，欲笺心事，独语斜阑。难！难！难！

人成各，今非昨，病魂常似秋千索。角声寒，夜阑珊，怕人寻问，咽泪装欢。瞒，瞒，瞒！

夜半偶然读到这两首词突然觉得很无语，发现现在自己能比一般人过得自由一点并不是因为我更聪明，而是因为我能承受比一般人大得多的痛苦。放弃该放弃的，面对该面对的，没有后悔，没有退缩，享受寂寞和伤痛，嘲笑世俗和虚伪，无心欺骗也无心猜疑。

Not feel very well recently as there're many things haunting in my fucking mind, as I always lack the power of determination to make things right.

Have to say I'm an optimistic guy generally, there're a lot of funs making me laugh everyday, however when I get upset, it's extremely miserable, like this moment deep in the night.

Right now, painfully, I'm supposed to wake up 6 hours later to be the witness of my best friend's wedding but I still couldn't fall asleep, just listening music and writing blog...

Anyhow, everything is fine and boring :(

阿爆昨天晚上给我托梦了，他说大家不用担心他现在过得很好很开心，他也希望我们过得很好很开心，逢年过节不要忘了他！

似水流年

回中国11天，从开始到结束，看见了很多人发生了很多事，时间像握在手中的沙，突然觉得山川岁月经不起等待而自己在一天天地衰老，好鸡巴悲伤。

那天打牌喝酒好久不见的睿哥也来了，穿了件黑色的皮衣很帅很适合他，一看就知道是猪皮的。

阿暴还是那个样子，上飞机回新加坡之前我才敢告诉他：虽然他以前打过我好几次但是我从来都不怪他，我知道其实他心里也不想也很痛苦但就是控制不住自己野生动物的天性，希望他以后能克服对繁殖和香蕉的冲动，撕下人皮的面具，早日重新回到森林的怀抱！

另外在酒吧里面把自己心爱的黑莓手机搞丢了，世事无常得失往往只在一念之间。。。

11天后的今夜，我很累而且发现自己每天都在犯错。。。

Yesterday is the eve of chinese new year which has no meaning for a homeless guy like me. I was just in office watching the market and reading a book named "all about hedge fund".

Of course I felt sort of lonely, which been an essential part of my life that I enjoy a lot, it's also the sacrifice of freedom which is more important than anything else.

Had a running around Costa Rhu just now and I'm packing my stuffs for tomorrow morning's fly to Chengdu.
It's supposed to be a nice trip with friends and foods!

Sad and Excited

夜半，黑，躺在床上听着音乐想起以前做错的事情和错失的机会突然觉得很伤心于是爬起来写blog却又不知道从什么地方写起．．．

花了几天时间决定了两件事：
１．8号回成都疯玩几天然后一个人去上海见一些人．
２．如果我继续现在的工作可以安稳地过上很多年，但是很多年后我会像今夜这样后悔曾经的懦弱和错失机会. 我不要！

周末去Timberland买了一双很是喜欢的木底刻花黑色皮鞋, 虽然平时很少穿放着也很高兴, 还卖了件CK的白色外套, 回国穿.

I'm going to do it !!!!!!

When I seat in darkness, I decide to to do something great no one did before, I'm going to challenge all my fears and weakness, and I know it will be tremendously tough and many people will laugh at me till the day I'm out of the game or I succeed.

Let me spin wheel of fate again!

2008, a new year as time pass by, fucking sad!

2008了, 似水流年, 真他妈的悲伤!

上个星期在网上发现现在PSP有不少好游戏而且都不要钱于是第二天就去买了台白色的搞得最近几天睡眠严重不足不过感觉很爽。

上星期在Vivo City看见一个美女突然有种被感动的感觉然后对视三秒一笑而过。我总是这样，明明想要的却从来不肯说出口，于是只好看着许多美好的东西擦肩而过总远地消失在生命当中，回忆中懊恼，我真他妈的虚伪和懦弱。

宿命的得失

我喜欢睡觉，因为常常会有些奇异的梦境，而且几乎从来不失眠，但今晚例外。

想象，生命是一棵顺着时间盘绕而上的参天大树，每个分叉都是一个选择，而人生的悲哀在于在每个分叉口只能选择一次，回不了头也永远不会知道在其它成千上万的枝干上可能发生的快乐或是悲伤，于是在抉择中彷徨，在对错中迷茫。

我总是情不自禁地去想象，想象在过去从未发生过的事情，想象在将来也不会出现的场景，一幅幅画面和一段段搞笑的对话不断在脑海中闪现，虚幻而美丽动人，让我兴奋无法入睡。

或许，这只是一个寂静的夜晚，而我，也只是在宿命的得失中寻找平衡而已。

Now I feel stuck in trading, I haven't made any money in last three months, and looks like it's always wrong no matter what I try to do recently, devastating.

For what I did before, they always can be done by hard studying and working, but it doesn't work for trading at all, seems trading always tends to break out the guideline of my knowledge, experience and statistic.

I thought I was going to be a good trader 6 months ago, but now I doubt it, I never feel such despairing that the opportunity is right in my hand but I just could not make it and all.

"The achievement without suffering is not reliable", it's what Gerard told me. I believe it and I never want to give up, but I've started figuring what I'd like to do in future other than being a trader.

Sunday Afternoon

The sunshine is wonderful today, I seat in front of the window for the whole afternoon after woke up at 2pm, watching the boats on river, watching the city under sky, and listening music quietly.
The sound of UM2 is incredible that it's hard to be described by any words, simple melody for all musics.

It sort of pissed me off yesterday that policeman blocked all the entrances to Tanjong Rhu and I had to get off taxi and walked home by near one hour at 4am!

徘徊啊。。。

感觉已经好久都没写过日记因为最近风平浪静天下太平除了在公司搞期货输了点钱之外并没有什么事情值得哀怨。

上星期休了一个星期的假和江昱叶翼去热浪岛游泳潜水划船晒太阳看美女顺便讨论人生理想和宇宙哲学，结论是钱真是个好东西同时贱人朋友很重要。
我们划船出海一不小心还遇上了海难，要不是翼哥身体相当强壮和英语发音相当标准及时求救估计现在我们已经上报轰动海内外：仨英俊男子浮尸马国海域。

刚才和老牟潘哲看夜场的电影，Stardust，好看，只可惜我永远都不可能是男主角。。。

I got fucked

I got totally fucked because I booked the premier sea view room at Redang Island for one week stay with my best friends but my visa to Malaysia was rejected today just because my passport is valid less than 6 months!

For me some things are worth to do without counting the cost, this is the one.
Redang is supposed to be fucking beautiful beach and Jiang Yu and Ye Yi are my best friends since many many years ago, it's fucking fun to talk and travel with them but I'm going to miss all of them!

I made calls everywhere and tried to dig out every possible solution but no way in next two weeks at all!

I haven't felt such miserable and regretful for a very long time......

Neither happiness nor misery

Seems I only write blog under three circumstances: bored, depressive and emotional.
Now I'm bored since it's 3am but I still have no intention to sleep at all.

Unconsciously I started thinking a lot again, and I found I'm becoming desperately impassive day by day as I have no specific feeling anymore when recalling past things.
I don't know whether it's good or not, but clearly I bloody hate to be a man without sentiments waiting for death.

Stayed at home for the whole day, sleep, play PS3, read "Treasury Bond Basis", neither happiness nor misery.

爱的宿命

才看完“云水谣”，不痛只是麻木，一个人坐在窗前望着夜半没落的城市不停地思考人生活一辈子有什么意义和什么才最重要。

关于爱，我相信所有的童话故事，相信一见中情，相信坚贞和生死相许，但我也相信这一切都不属于我，我只是孤单地漂泊在这个世界上活在自己的理想和梦境当中，但是我不在乎，即使有机会再来一次我也会选择跟现在一样的生活。

在经历所有的快乐和痛苦之后，现在发现其实值得为之奋斗的目标只有一个：做自己想做的事情不用再畏惧任何人任何事。

突然想到读高中时候特别喜欢的一首诗，特别震撼：

我欲与君相知
长命无绝衰。
山无陵,
江水为竭,
冬雷阵阵夏雨雪,
天地合,
乃敢与君绝！

千万别给我机会，给我机会就由不得你们了！

在老穆的推荐下花了４天时间每晚睡４小时看完了“奋斗”，我从来都不怎么喜欢国产的电视剧但是不得不说这部拍得真不错。我会一辈子都记住里面的一些话，一辈子都羡慕里面的爱情故事，一辈子坚信友谊万岁。

之后一直在想我到底想要一种什么样的生活，很是迷茫，但又突然觉得我现在的生活就很好：拼命工作，拼命地玩，无牵无挂衣食无忧，而且前途似乎光明，我不介意花掉每个月赚的每一块钱，因为我坚信以后会赚的更多。我只要快乐。

前天又搬家了。
新地方还不错，在新加坡河旁边打开窗对面就是灯火辉煌的城市，而且大得让人寂寞。唯一的遗憾是房子在11楼，不怎么高。
朋友都奇怪为什么我老是搬家，其实我喜欢在过去两年住过的所有地方，但是总是待在同一个的地方多没意思，有种生活叫做流浪。

“我要努力！我要奋斗！”

夜半三点一遍又一遍地听着张惠妹的“如果你也听说”，有点困但不想睡，总觉得今天有些未了的心愿却又想不起到底是什么，于是就这样歪歪斜斜地躺在床上听着歌写着blog静静地想着。

星期五晚上罢工和Wilfred, Yewjinn, Sherman一起吃东西看烟火吃冰激凌看电影然后再吃东西。

星期六公司party，在Tangling Village。关于那个地方我什么都不想说除了真TMD是个好地方。

今天天气不错，大雨过后天阴阴的，凉凉的风卷着树叶到处乱飞。下午3点起床洗澡去公司升级服务器，晚上到老穆家玩魔兽一起吃东西。

明天应该早起，10点。好像要不够睡了。。。

Thursday ---
Just came home and took a bath, lying on bed and writing blog to wait my hair dry.

Seriously I'm fucking sleepy now since kept trading 14 hours without going out office. Naresh packeted spicy seafood pasta for me which is really my favor and I kept drinking water all the time.

Friday ---
Just came home and took a bath, lying on bed and continuing writing blog to wait my hair dry.

Seriously I'm still fucking sleepy since only slept 7 hours yesterday which is far from enough and watched the new The Bourne Ultimatum at Orchard after midnight just now, very good one!

Keep up and smile

It's my meditation day, stayed at home for the whole day, read, slept, read, slept, read, slept......

Finally after midnight I was starving and called Lao Mu to go eat Crab and Lobster at No Signboard Seafood, which reminded me the hard life I had when working there as a part-time waiter two years ago while I was still in school.

"Everyone gets their moment", I believe that. However no one could see or imagine what bloody terrible moments I suffered before. I will remember that period forever and never mention to anyone. Just keep up and smile!

After failed the last exam of CCSP on Wednesday, I started trading German bonds and Euribor again.

Seriously trading is a bloody tough but interesting thing torturing me. I strongly felt that I was fighting with no one but myself, and all my fear, anxiety, pride, indiscipline and greed.

And my sight got worse and worse recently because stared at those screens more than 10 hours everyday...